If both of you are getting along dont hurry anything, it will happen. Which is an attractive idea to influence and condition your unconcious mind. Its just that the idea of being alpha macho and Fucking loT of girls has alot of social proof and is overrated. Sex from a place of deep connection, values and personality match is alot more fulfilling. I have played the alpha role and is not worth it, not if you want something deeper. There are alot of needy manipulative women aswell.įrom my experience, primal biological sex is not that worthwile. Before and after a date, you want to see if you like her, not the other way around. First of all, realize they are a person just like you and their beauty is just their main asset. Another ironical thing is that when you accept yourself, people tend to accept you.Īlso, you dont need to go crazy dating lots of women and get experience necesarily to stop being needy with them. Its a paradox you will have to understand. But, by simply being and not trying, you can also start to improve/actualize/change yourself by a true desire of inspiration and not lack. I have lived both sides and still prefer to be a prisioner who is inwardly free than a modern slave conditioned by society bullshit.īeing vulnerable and accepting your neediness is the first step towards non neediness because if you try to improve non neediness this action implies you need something, thus making you feel needy. People will want to make you fit, dont fall for it, is not worth it.
If you are not enlightened yet, you will have to watch your inner frames (values, ethics and motivations) constantly. I have become very non needy in the past and fallen into neediness again because of society invisible influences. Neediness is caused by false beliefs in lack and these beliefs are guided by lack motivations that are often unconcious and continually conditioned towards you by society. If you are always seeking aproval or worried about others opinions, this book explains neediness very well on a mental level so you can then transitition it into a more spiritual and contemplative manner. This book is focused towards dating but it can be applied in all of your life areas.
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